{"id":125,"date":"2020-08-31T18:10:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T18:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carolwake.me.uk\/?p=125"},"modified":"2021-01-06T15:43:40","modified_gmt":"2021-01-06T15:43:40","slug":"memory-afternoon-with-my-sister","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carolwake.me.uk\/index.php\/2020\/08\/31\/memory-afternoon-with-my-sister\/","title":{"rendered":"Memory Afternoon with my Sister."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Quite a few years ago I had a week up in Sunderland to stay with my sister.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Love train journeys so I enjoyed the 4-hour train journey&#8230;King X to Newcastle and Metro to Sunderland where I was met at the station by my sister and her son no 2. It was lovely to catch up and discover Sunderland. As I got out of the train on Newcastle station I could feel a long-drawn sob catch in my throat and the words &#8220;I&#8217;m home&#8221; cross my mind.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">To be near the sea&#8230;.the North Sea&#8230;..the &#8220;proper sea&#8221; as I called it was wonderful&#8230;..being able to smell the sea.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">One afternoon sticks in my mind was going to the village that I was born in and my sister has memories of. My brother in law dropped us off in the village\/hamlet and we planned to catch the bus back two hours later.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We got out of the car in the middle of the village and me and my sister looked at each other&#8230;it felt strange as if our mum was with us&#8230;..either our mum or our grandad we felt there was someone else with us. We decided to walk up the village past where Grandad used to live&#8230; looked very different and strange as there was a sort of an accumulation of bungalows\/houses. We walked as far as the school&#8230;.my sister tells me we went as far as the cemetery where grandad is buried&#8230;.but I cannot remember that so I cannot comment.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As we went back past the school we discover a way to get into the &#8220;back lane&#8221;&#8230; a long lane that ran the length of the buildings. As we stepped into the lane it was like stepping back in time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We decided to double back to where we knew that Grandads back garden was and the garden was still there but being used as a paddock even with horses. I remember (I think) my sister patting a head that was wall height&#8230;then the horse stood up&#8230;..that was funny.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We then continued down the lane&#8230;.the smells&#8230;.the sounds they were the same. I used to dream I was in granddads garden and used to go to the bottom to look upon rows and rows of houses and it was wonderful to see it was the same&#8230;even down to a tractor trundling across the field(except that the tractor driver was different) of course.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In my memories, I can only go as far as the old air-raid shelter but my sister remembers a little bit further where a little bridge crossed into another field where I think she remembers a bull lived&#8230;I don&#8217;t but I am older so I guess old age has made me forget that bit.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Back into the main part of the village, we walked past the church I was christened in. There were 6 of us children and I was the only one christened.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We then discovered that we have missed the bus and had to wait a while for another one. So a bit more exploring. The shop had been made into a home for someone&#8230;.but the pub was still there. The Plough which was grandad&#8217;s local&#8230;&#8230;so in we went&#8230;&#8230;my sister has a better memory than me so she will know if we had a drink or not. Probably did as I cannot ever remember going into a pub and not getting a drink.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">There was an old chap who was sat the to corner and we said that I had been born in the village and who my grandad was and he remembered him and pointed out that on the wall around the corner was a photo of the village football team. I cannot remember the year but they&#8217;re in the photo who we recognised straight away was grandad. The barman even said if the landlord had been in he might have offered the photo tome&#8230;but I feel I would not have taken it as it was part of that pub.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We had to run for the bus that took us only to a place called Trimdon where we caught another bus to Peterlee where sisters hubby picked us up.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">A lovely day with lovely memories.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Thank you for reading.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quite a few years ago I had a week up in Sunderland to stay with my sister. Love train journeys so I enjoyed the 4-hour train journey&#8230;King X to Newcastle and Metro to Sunderland where I was met at the station by my sister and her son no 2. 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